Resources
In the wake of a tragedy, communities often grapple with a profound sense of loss and a yearning for purpose. Communities can channel this collective grief into meaningful action, fostering resilience and solidarity. Many find solace and empowerment through grassroots organizations, which provide a platform for collective action and support. Others may actively interact with local politicians to ensure they hear their voices and address their needs. Volunteering offers another avenue for healing, allowing individuals to contribute directly to the recovery efforts and support those affected. By coming together in these ways, communities can transform their sorrow into strength, building a more connected and compassionate society. I've compiled all the resources and organizations here.
NEED SERVICES - Rochester Hills
Oakland County Community Mental Health 248-464-6363
All For Oxford Resiliency Ctr: 248-653-5511
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The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
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The Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
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The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386Family Assistance Center at the City of Rochester Hills- Government Department of Public Services, 511 E. Auburn Road, where counselors will be available from 4-8 p.m. Monday through Friday. No appointment is necessary. Clear signage by the road marks the entrance to the center.
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Family Assistance Center at the City of Rochester Hills- Government Department of Public Services, 511 E. Auburn Road, where counselors will be available from 4-8 p.m. Monday through Friday. No appointment is necessary. Clear signage by the road marks the entrance to the center.
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Individuals unable to visit the Family Assistance Center may call the Public Health Oakland Nurse on Call to access mental health resources. This service can be reached at 800-848-5533 and is available from 8:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Friday.
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OAKLAND COUNTY, MI (June 16, 2024) – Oakland Community Health Network (OCHN) is releasing mental health tips for families and individuals to manage stress or trauma associated with the recent shooting at the Brooklands Plaza Splash Pad in Rochester Hills.
Mental Health Support:
Individuals experiencing a mental health crisis can call 988 (24 hours / 7 days) or Oakland Community Health Network’s non-emergency behavioral health access department at 248-464-6363, Monday thru Friday from 8 a.m. - 8 p.m.
Tips for Parents:
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Acknowledge what happened. If your child is talking or asking about traumatic events, it is important for the caregivers / loved ones in their life to acknowledge what happened, provide age-appropriate information, and be supportive.
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Parents may want to approach older children who may have seen the news or videos on social media and find out what they know and what their thoughts / feelings are about what happened.
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Recognize the effect this has on your child. Talk to your child about their thoughts and emotions as it pertains to the event and validate their feelings and concerns. With mass shootings in public places and places of worship, this is a valid concern for them, and all adults need to take their viewpoint and concerns into consideration.
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Help your child to feel safe. A sense of normalcy and routine as soon as possible after an event helps to re-establish a child's sense of safety and structure. Discuss whatever positive aspects can be found in tragic events such as the quick police response and how community members and citizens across the country are coming together to support those affected.
Tips for Adults:
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Everyone experiences events and trauma in different ways and however they think or feel after an event like this is okay. Some people respond with fear, some anger, some shock, sadness, etc. Encourage people to talk about what they are thinking and feeling. Seek support from friends, family, or professionals if necessary.
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Try to get back to routines and schedules to promote feelings of consistency and balance to reduce fear and provide a feeling of returning control and predictability.
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Be mindful to consider the amount of exposure to the news / media, particularly to children. It is okay to keep updated, but continuing to view the images, etc. may worsen and prolong the issues the person is experiencing.
Here is a great video describing the window of tolerance for a child.
